A Life Well Styled
There’s a certain magic in feeling polished without looking overdone. That, to me, is the heart of a life well styled: appearing at ease yet entirely put together. It’s the kind of magic that makes people wonder if you just happen to wake up that way and lets you keep the secret that it’s all very intentional.
Whether it’s a quiet morning of errands, a lunch with friends, or an evening out, style is the thread that ties it all together. It’s the language I use to move through the day, guided by a few principles I’ve come to call my Golden Rules.
The Golden Rules of Style
Quality over quantity
Think fewer pieces that make you feel amazing every time you wear them. Because when something fits beautifully and lasts for years, it’s never “just clothes.”Having a refined palette
A refined palette starts with warm neutrals: camel, cream, espresso, and navy, with the occasional seasonal guest star. The mix of rich tones and soft neutrals give depth to any wardrobe.Tailoring is transformative
Price isn’t what makes a piece look expensive. Fit is. A small adjustment can completely change how something feels and how it moves with you.Balance through boldness
Bold accessories make the strongest impact when they tell a story, like a vintage watch, layered necklaces, or patterned shoes. Anchor a look with one element that leads, then let the rest play in harmony around it.Style starts within
Some days style is about confidence, other days about ease, and often it’s a balance of both. The best outfits don’t just look good, they change how you feel.
Build a Capsule Wardrobe
Less, but better. That’s the heart of a capsule wardrobe. Start with high-quality basics that mix and match. Think:
A crisp button-down
A flowy, long dress
A flattering trench
Neutral knits and simple camisoles
Great denim in a fit that feels like you
Ballet flats that double for work and weekends
When your closet is filled with pieces you actually wear, getting dressed becomes easier and more enjoyable.
Golden Rule tip: If you’re starting from scratch, focus on 10 to 12 essential pieces that can create 20 or more outfits.
Let Your Accessories Speak
When I wear something simple, I love to elevate it with a statement earring, necklace charm or bold cuff. Accessories are the punctuation marks of a look.
Try this:
A chunky gold bracelet with a fitted black sweater
A standout necklace charm with a flowy linen dress
A silk scarf knotted at the neck or looped through your bag
Think of accessories as the centerpiece, and your clothes as the backdrop.
Dress for Your Day
Style doesn’t mean wearing the same thing every day. It means dressing intentionally, no matter the occasion.
Workdays: Tailored separates, polished flats, a clean tote
Weekends: Well-fitting denim, elevated basics, relaxed knits
Evenings: A slip dress with a bold lip and heels, or sleek trousers and a silk blouse
Golden Rule tip: Keep a few go-to combinations saved in your phone or written down. You’ll thank yourself on the mornings you're in a rush.
Parting Thought
Style isn’t about perfection. It’s about showing up as yourself. Because when your closet gets you, every outfit feels like the best version of your own story.
And if you’re looking for pieces to inspire you, visit The Golden Edit, my curated shop of favorites.
X - McLean Golden